Changed.

Wow, the day (or night I should say) has finally come. At noon tomorrow I'll board a plane bound for Washington, D.C. and will say "see you soon" (not good-bye) to a city that changed my perspective on the world and changed me as a person. It may seem funny that I'm writing this entry now instead of when I'm home. However, I know that in the craze of seeing family, doing last minute Christmas shopping, and just enjoying the beautiful Christmas cheer of Upstate NY, I won't be able to get the right words out.

This past week was bittersweet and still eye-opening. I handed in my last paper on Monday night and enjoyed myself for the next six days. Kulor Tuesday was fun as always and on Thursday I spent the day Christmas shopping, walking around, and eating some delicious food with Syd (which turned into another sleep over). Friday was the DIS concluding ceremony and reception and was actually great. I was able to say good-bye to a lot of people as well as one of my favorite professors. I'll have to say it was the weirdest saying good-bye to my friend David, who I sat next to on the plane on the way to Europe. It feels like just yesterday I was meeting him for the first time and we were talking about how excited we were to arrive in Copenhagen. Friday night was my last "night out" in Copenhagen. Syd and I went to a place called Froken Nielson, which is open bar after paying a fee to get in and then headed over to A-Bar to dance the night away in Copenhagen one last time. It feels like just yesterday we were going out together for the first time in Copenhagen and suddenly four months just snuck right up on me.

Tonight Syd, Natasha, Natasha's friend Karen, and I had a nice hygge dinner at my apartment. I could not have asked for a more relaxed final night. We had a delicious dinner and then watched the Danish version of The Voice, which was both hilarious and impressive. Afterwards we sat around and talked over some apple crisp. Saying good-bye to Syd was difficult and just something I did not want to do. Despite the fact I'll be seeing her in less than a month back at Tufts, she was such a huge part of my experience. She was always my go-to person, someone I grew to be really close to and respect and a good 90% of my greatest memories involved have her in them.

The title of this post is "Changed" and for good reason. I will be arriving in the United States a different individual, with a new outlook on worldly issues and those around me. It might sound cliche to say but I suppose you need to experience a new culture in order to understand. I came to Copenhagen not knowing anyone and knowing hardly anything about Denmark and its capital. I know now that when I go home and someone brings up Denmark or Copenhagen, I'll be jumping in to talk about the city that became my home so quickly. I'm excited to tell my family about my experiences and what I've learned. More importantly, I'm beyond excited to see them. As most of you know I'm very close with my family. This is something I have come to treasure from being abroad. While it is difficult to leave the country that changed my life for the better, it is in fact time to go home and see my family and let them know how much I love and appreciate them.

While abroad I became involved, immersed myself in everything I could, made friends from all over the world, and gained recognition for it in the end, which exceeded my expectations. I can never say I became "Danish" but I can say I took advantage of everything DIS, Copenhagen, and Europe had to offer. I visited many countries, ate different cuisines, visited dozens of museums and monuments,  watched the sun come out on several nights out, and made friends who have taught me about the importance of meaningful relationships. I learned about others, myself, and this huge world we live in. Five months ago I wrote about the little things I would miss at Tufts. Now I'm thinking about the little things I'll be missing about Copenhagen when I return to the states: the friendliness of Danes, the walks around the center of the city, church bells ringing every 15 minutes, exchanging stories with Natasha, and the apartment I've become so fond of. However, in the end, I can leave Denmark knowing I'm leaving with a bang.

I know tomorrow won't be the easiest of days (traveling with two huge suitcases never is). More so, I know that saying good-bye to Natasha at the airport will be difficult. Living with someone for four months forces you to become close and establish trust with one another and not seeing her every day will odd and sad. I was blessed to have her as my roommate. However, despite the fact that I'll be saying good-bye to one home, I'll be smiling when I land in Syracuse and go to my first home. I'll be smiling even more knowing that just about three weeks later I'll be headed to my second home at Tufts. My mom makes Christmas pretty magical at our house, with everything from beautiful decorations to an amazing Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Knowing that I'm going home to that is pretty amazing. Having this "home" in Copenhagen has made me appreciate my home in Syracuse a lot more. I can't express how excited I am to hug my parents, joke around with my siblings, and spend the holidays with Dan (he has no idea how great a Grosack Christmas is). I get giddy at the thought of going to Wegmans with my brother, Christmas shopping around town, and sitting with my parents at night talking in front of the fireplace. Of course this year did not go exactly as planned but my first post was about adjusting to change and going with it and that's exactly what I did and things turned out better than I could have ever imagined. I saw the world and now I plan on using what I've learned to change it for the better.

Hej Hej, Copenhagen. I can never thank you enough.

These Are a Few of My Favorite Things

It is hard to fathom that in ten days I will be on a plane from Copenhagen to D.C., en route to the beautiful land of Syracuse (which was just rated the #1 snowiest city, I'll have you know). When I ask my friends about their feelings towards returning home, the answer is short and simple: bittersweet. In my mind, that is the ideal word to describe my feelings. Last week was much more stressful than the others with numerous papers and random assignments and after having a nice weekend to breathe, I'm enjoying all of the time I have left in this beautiful and vibrant city.

As you all know, I have a younger brother, Nate, who is a freshman in college at Wake Forest. Of all of the people I've missed, he is definitely at the top of the list. He is such a caring, intelligent, funny, and genuine person and someone I'm proud to call a brother and best friend. Unfortunately Nate recently and suddenly lost one of his friends at Wake Forest and it was yet another wake-up call to how precious life truly is and how important it is to be thankful and appreciative of all individuals and moments in life. This entry doesn't have to do with details about an exciting trip across Europe or a visit from someone I care about. But as the holidays draw near, it is hard not to think about all of the things that have become "favorites" on my journey in Denmark and throughout Europe. Additionally, I've grown to think about how appreciative I am of every individual who has gotten me through the hard times and cheered me on during the good ones. Rather, as I sit in my hyyge-esque room, candles lit and Christmas music playing, I've come to realize how much more grateful and humble this experience has made me and how much it has made me appreciate so many things and people I once took for granted, both in the States and in Denmark.

I wouldn't be sitting here without the support and encouragement of my parents, two individuals who have emphasized acceptance of others and being grateful as key facets of life. They have been with me through every smile, tear drop, exam, paper, trip, and event. While saying good-bye to Copenhagen will be difficult, the end factor of jumping into my parents' arms is pretty extraordinary. Additionally, I realize how important my three awesome and hilarious brothers are to me. While abroad I did not get to talk to them as much as when I'm in the States. From this I realize how much I adore and miss Matt's never-ending humor, Michael and Lauren's words of encouragement, and just being able to text and call Nate whenever something funny has happened (on top of being pretty inseparable). Not only would I not be where I am today without all of them but I would not be the person I am. In addition to my family are the individuals at home who have supported me and encouraged me through this process and adventure (especially you, Danny). Any rough patch or not-so-great-day was made better by them and by knowing that I still have such a solid and amazing group of people to go home to at Tufts. I can't wait to share stories with them and see how their year has played out thus far. I've been so fortunate to stay in touch with all of my best friends who are also studying in Europe and learning more about the world around them as well as themselves. Although I wish I could have seen Hannah, Shauna, Jacob, and Stephanie this semester, I'm proud to call them my good friends and learn from them based on what they have experienced abroad. I'm beyond grateful that I was able to experience both Copenhagen and Madrid with Shelby, someone I truly admire and love and someone I know I'll be friends with for life. On top of those individuals, I've met the most amazing people here in my studies abroad, both DIS students and Danes. They've taught me so much about taking in every moment abroad and loving all that Copenhagen has to offer. There are simply too many names to list off but I'm thankful for every individual I've met in the past four months, whether we've met in Turkey, Sweden, Spain, or Denmark. Last but not least, this entire experience would not have been the same had I not been graced with such a kind, funny, and loving roommate. Natasha has been such a blessing and of all the "shocks" that I will be encountering upon returning to the U.S., I'm pretty sure not living with her will be the biggest. She has has my back here the entire time and was so patient when I was adjusting to life in Copenhagen. I truly hope every person who studies abroad and lives with a roommate of a different culture is as lucky as I have been.

But of course, this entry is also a fun one to reflect on things that have grown to become "favorites" of mine. Of course I could name 100 things already. However, just to name a few:

1. Getting hygge with it. Hygge translates into "cozy" in Danish. It is a concept/somewhat of an activity here in Denmark in which you light candles with friends, whether at home or in a bar/restaurant/cafe, and eat, drink, and talk. Denmark is actually the number one manufacturer of candles and now I can see why. Almost every restaurant or cafe is lit by candles and the atmosphere is quaint and joyful, especially during the holiday seasons. Whenever I had friends or family visit, they always commented on how nice and cozy places were. It is something I have grown so accustomed to and while I can already think of cozy restaurants in Syracuse and Boston, they don't quite compare to the ones in Copenhagen. What I've grown to love about this place is how easy going and relaxed everyone is. We get to be so busy and preoccupied with things in the US that we forget how fun and relaxing it is to just sit with friends and have a drink or a meal.

2. Bakeries. Ah, that smell. So sweet and delectable. I never walked more than two minutes without passing a bakery or coffee shop and taking in the unforgettable smell of pastries that have just emerged from the oven. It has become such a familiar smell and I still find it impossible to believe that I won't be able to go to my favorite, hole-in-the-wall bakery for a pastry and spicy chai latte.

3. Kulor Tuesdays. Everyone hears me talking about this place and for good reason. When I think about next semester, I don't think about the impending mounds of pages I'll have to read or how I'll be spending five or six nights studying in the library until midnight. No, I think to myself, "What am I going to do without Kulor on Tuesday night?" Given that we did not have classes on Wednesdays, "Kulor Tuesdays" became such a norm. Regardless of the fact that all of the DIS students were there every Tuesday, it was such a nice break during the week to let loose and experience Copenhagen nightlife...on a Tuesday. The atmosphere is grade, the price is reasonable and you get unlimited beer. What's not to love?

4. The apartment. I can't emphasize how much I've grown to love this apartment. It might be small, but it's the perfect size for two people. It's cozy and has everything I need. After a long day of classes or whenever I needed some "me" time, I knew I could simply relax and feel good in this apartment. Whenever I hosted friends, they always commented on what a great location it is and how adorable it is. Upon returning from trips around Europe, I always looked forward to walking in the door and feeling like I was home.

5. Danes. Maybe I'm bias because I've lived here for four months, but I've grown to really love Danes and how friendly and intelligent they are. Whether I was at a bar, DIS, club, or just strolling along Stroget, I always met a friendly Dane who was curious about my culture and was always willing to help. I've been so fortunate to meet many Danes here and think they are truly terrific people.

As I said, the list goes on and on. However, these are just a few highlights and I know that in the coming weeks as I sit at home thinking about Copenhagen, I'll write more about the things I miss and grew to love over my four months here. This weekend (my last full one in CPH) will be spent going out with friends, walking around the city, and taking in every last piece of Copenhagen I possibly can. No, this is not my final entry. In fact, I've grown to love blogging regardless of who does or does not read my blog. It has turned into such a peaceful outlet for letting others catch a glimpse at my life abroad and even if I'm at Tufts next semester, I know I'll have more adventures with new and unique people so why not continue blogging?

Here's to my last week in Copenhagen! This girl is going to live it up.

Danny Visits!

Since my trip to Spain things have been busy but amazing. Getting back to DIS and seeing every one was great and it sounds like my friends had some amazing European adventures. I was beyond happy to be at Kulor with Syd on Tuesday night along with probably half of the DIS students. Unfortunately two weeks of going and going caught up with me and I got a nice 24-hour bug from Thursday until Friday but luckily it did not fully ruin my weekend. I had gone so long without being sick but I guess it had to happen at some point!


After waiting for three months, Dan's visit to Copenhagen finally arrived and it was an incredible five days. I have to admit, I was a lot more nervous for his arrival than I thought I would be. I was running around like a mad man getting everything ready and was so excited I hardly slept Tuesday night. He got in at about 11 on Wednesday morning and after a long hug and being reunited, it felt like we had never been separated. Before Dan came we both agreed that we would have a "spontaneous" trip with zero planning and just "going with the flow" each day and I'm really glad we did. It made the trip that much more fun. On Wednesday I showed him my favorite spots in the city. I'm glad that Dan got to visit at this time of the year. Copenhagen is known for being really magical and beautiful during Christmastime and I can see why. The streets are lit with Christmas lights and every window in a shop is decorated for Christmas with trees, gifts, and ornaments. In addition, you can't go more than a few blocks without finding some adorable Christmas market. That night we went to a final presentation class for my Migration and Conflict program followed by a dinner with the entire group at a Turkish restaurant called Sultan's Palace. While I was beyond excited and happy to have Dan with me, it was sad to know that it would be the last time all of the MC group would be together. As we were walking together my friend Ben commented that it felt like we were back in Turkey since all of us were going in a huge group together. I can't believe Turkey was over a month ago! All of the individuals in my program made my experience very special and I know that I picked the right DIS program. Not to mention being taught my Jakob, who was such a great mentor. After dinner Dan and I went for a nice walk around the city and headed home for some much needed sleep.

The next morning I took Dan to DIS to show him the school and introduce him to some friends. We then headed over to Nyhavn, where the streets were lit with lights every where. We had a late lunch at an adorable and cozy restaurant called Nyhavn 17. I was so content having hot chocolate with a nice meal and seeing all of the Christmas markets outside. Dan and I both agreed that it was easily our favorite meal during his visit, both because of the food and atmosphere. After admiring the Christmas markets, both in Nyhavn and along Stroget, we headed over to Tivoli, where I had never been before. If you're looking for a Winter Wonderland in Copenhagen, then look no further than Tivoli.  It was so incredibly festive and every one was joyful. There were cute shops all around that sold cider, Christmas decorations, and food, and there were lights of every color all around. We spent about two hours in Tivoli just walking, talking, and admiring how beautiful it was. We then headed over to one of my favorite places, Stella's, for a late Thanksgiving dinner. Both Dan and I commented on how weird it was to be away from home on Thanksgiving, however, I was very thankful to have him there with me. On Friday we explored the city more and had lunch at a place called Dalle Valle. Once again, it was a nice, cozy restaurant. After more walking around the city and showing Dan The Cathedral of Copenhagen, I took him to Sankt Peders Bageri for some hot chocolate and cake. The bakery is probably my favorite in all of Copenhagen. It is small, delicious, and not at all expensive. Plus the girls who work there are so friendly. Afterwards we headed back to my apartment to have dinner (and wine) with Natasha and her boyfriend. It was really nice to be able to stay in and talk with both of them. That night Syd and Katherine came over for some drinks and food before heading over to Kulor. After talking non-stop about the place to Dan, I was glad he finally got to experience it. It was also incredibly fun to be able to dance together again after so much time apart and I'm really glad he got a glimpse at the nightlife in Copenhagen.

On Saturday we went for a walk along the canal and over to Norrebro, which is a trendy and artistic area in Copenhagen. After more walking around the city and admiring all of the festive stores, we headed to a cafe for some hot chocolate and just sat and talked. Though the cafe was a little pricey, but it was definitely worth it. The atmosphere is cozy and fun and the drinks are delicious. We headed back to Nyhavn to admire the Christmas markets once more and then had an early dinner at a place called Cafe G where we both had a delicious meal. Since it started to rain and Dan was leaving in the morning, we headed back to my apartment and spent the night relaxing and watching movies. Despite the fact that I'll be seeing Dan in three weeks for Christmas, I was so sad that he was leaving. Not only did his trip go by too fast but we had such a great time together that I really did not want it to end. However, I'm so thankful he was able to see Copenhagen and that we were able to spend time together after being apart for so long.

It truly baffles me that three weeks from now I'll be back in Syracuse. This is my last week of classes and I can so vividly remember my first day and how new everything was. I never expected this semester to go by as fast as it did. One day I was writing about being in Copenhagen for only a week and the next thing I know I'm writing about having only three weeks left. Despite the fact that a lot of those weeks will be spent writing papers, I still plan to take in every last moment that I can while I'm here. While I heard about what everyone was thankful for this Thanksgiving, I thought about how thankful I am for this experience and all that it has taught me. I honestly feel I'll be traveling back to the U.S. as a new person with a different perspective on so many things. 

Family and Tapas

Of course the travel break FLEW by.

These past two weeks have been busy but amazing and rather than go day-by-day (that's a lot of writing for this girl), I'll highlight two big parts of my two-week break, which was my family visiting and seeing Shelby in Madrid. Mike and Lauren arrived on Friday afternoon and it was so great to see them and just have family around. We spent a good three hours walking around Copenhagen, where I showed them DIS, my favorite places in the city, and Nyhavn, which is where all the famous canal pictures are taken. Since they were tired and I had just finished paper/midterms week, we had an early dinner at one of my favorite restaurants, Stella's, and both called it a night. On Saturday we visited the Rosenborg Castle, where the crowned jewels of Denmark are kept. I won't lie, those were some insane diamonds. I made sure to let Mike and Lauren that I wanted just a few for Christmas. We then headed over to Christiania and had a traditional and delicious Danish lunch at a quaint and adorable restaurant on the water. Afterwards we spent time walking around Christiania. Christiania is an autonomous neighborhood in Copenhagen that houses around 900 residents. They put a large emphasis on community living, which was really unique to see. After Christiania we headed back to the center of the city for some drinks and cake, where I had the most incredible chocolate banana cake. I swear, Danish desserts never cease to amaze my taste buds. That night we had a late dinner and went to Kulor, one of my favorite clubs/bars in Copenhagen. We met up with Syd and Ben and had a great time dancing, talking and drinking.

After a much-needed morning of sleeping in, I walked the Round Tour (free tickets come in handy) and got to overlook all of Copenhagen. It was such a beautiful sight. I then met Mike and Lauren and we walked around and had a late dinner at a small but amazing Italian restaurant. The pizza was incredible and the three of us split a bottle of wine. It was so nice to just relax after a hectic week. I then took both of them to The Dubliner for some drinks and people watching along Stroget. It still baffles me that The Dubliner was the first place I ever went to in Copenhagen. That first day seems like ages ago. It's so incredible to realize that I know my way around the city so much better compared to where I was in late August. The next day we headed over to Roskilde, which is a town just outside of Copenhagen. We walked around the town, went to the Viking Museum, and I finally had sushi for the first time in three months. I then took them to my apartment to relax for a bit and meet Natasha. They loved the apartment and the location. That night we went out for drinks at a restaurant in Norrebro. The atmosphere was great. Everyone was simply joyful and content with life and the beer was pretty awesome as well. I'll definitely go back before I leave. It was then on to yet another amazing dinner at a Thai restaurant that overlooked the canal. I forgot how much I love Pad Thai.

Between being with Mike and Lauren and going to Madrid, I had some free time to myself in Copenhagen and took full advantage of it. I went to the Art Museum, The National Museum of Denmark, and a Holocaust Memorial Museum in Copenhagen. They were all pretty amazing, especially the Holocaust Museum. It was quite a treat to just have a few days to relax and take in this beautiful city. I promised myself that studying abroad in Copenhagen meant more than just going to class and going out. That said, aside from visiting sites, I did all of the Copenhagen-y things I could such as walking around the canal, eating a pastry, sitting and people watching with a cup of coffee, and going out for drinks with a Danish friend. Being here has made me realize how incredible it is to be comfortable with being on my own. I sometimes used to dread the thought of having a job after college in a new city knowing absolutely no one. However, after living in Europe for three months and realizing how great it is to be independent and comfortable with just walking around alone, I'm pretty happy with the possibility of living in a new city.

It has always been one of my dreams to go to Spain. I'm not sure why Spain is THE country but after having visited so many countries in Europe, I always wanted to experience Spain. I let myself have one big trip this semester where I could spend a good amount of time in a new city and spend money on food, drinks, nightlife, and other things to take in the culture. Of course, since my best friend lives in Madrid, I thought, "Well, now's my chance" and wow, am I glad I went. I arrived around six on Tuesday and was all giddy when I saw Shelby, both because it was great to see such a good friend and because it shocked me once again that we were just hanging out in Europe together. We went to her adorable apartment to meet her Senora and get her things and then headed over to the hostel. The people there were really friendly and there were so many DIS students staying there and partying in Madrid in general. I ran into someone I knew or had a class with every day I was there. That night we had a late dinner and glass of wine at an amazing restaurant and then went to a bar to meet Shelby's friends from her program where I had my first glass of sangria. It was delicious. Shelby's friends are all so nice and easy-going and what a plus that they go to Syracuse University!

The next day we slept in and I had my first bite of chocolate churros (yum) and a calamari sandwich for lunch. The food in Madrid was so amazing. I couldn't get over it. Wednesday was mostly devoted to shopping and we met Elena, Shelby's good friend from home, to walk around and take in the incredible stores around the city. We did such a crazy amount of walking the whole time I was there and I loved it. After saying good-bye to Elena, we headed back to our hostel to get ready for dinner and Shelby brought me to an incredible tapas restaurant. I have to share that I wanted to knock four foods/drinks off my list in Spain: churros, sangria, a mojito, and tapas. I was unaware of the fact that tapas is a concept and not an actual food. After much confusion at dinner from Shelby telling me that we were having tapas, I finally understood it all. Aside from that embarassment, however, dinner was once again beyond delicious. Afterwards we met more of Shelby's friends at a bar and headed over to a club. Despite the fact that the club was empty at first, we ended up dancing our hearts out and having a great time.

We woke up on the early side Thursday to visit the Shelby's school, have lunch, and visit the Reina Sophia, a modern art museum in Madrid. Some of the art was pretty incredible and interesting. Afterwards we walked around and got some snacks. Shelby and I were pretty tired and needed a little rest time before going out so we watched a movie in the hostel. We then met her friends at a tapas bar called El Tigre, which is a place I wanted to visit since I saw so many pictures of it from Shelby's experience abroad. At the bar you get a huge plate of tapas and an even huger drink for just six euros. Let me remind everyone that although Copenhagen is an amazing city, it is certainly not cheap so being in Spain for five days and not having to pay 14 dollars for a drink was great. After El Tigre we went to a club called Joy and danced the night away. Once again, I bumped into more DIS students. DIS really took over Madrid!

I'd have to say my last day in Madrid was my favorite based on everything Shelby and I got to do. We ate lunch at this amazing restaurant where you paid 12.50 euro to get a drink, appetizer, meal, and dessert. It was so delicious and pleasant to have a nice meal and just sit and talk. Afterwards we visited the Prado, which is a beautiful art museum in Madrid. I was astonished by all of the art work. Not only was it beautiful but it had so much religious history behind it. After the museum we went to Retiro park, where I was reminded of how beautiful fall truly is. We sat and had a cup of coffee and walked around before heading over to the cathedral near Sol. It was honestly one of the most beautiful cathedrals I've ever seen. It was so detailed with gorgeous colors and I loved every minute I got to spend in it. We headed back to the hostel for a little while before getting pizza for dinner and spent the night going to different bars with Shelby's friends. I finally got to have a mojito and it was delicious (I wonder how many times I've used that word so far). After a few hours of sleep, I left the next morning and had to try hard not to cry on the metro after saying good-bye to Shelby. It was hard knowing I won't see her for so long but I'm beyond thankful I got to have such an amazing time with her in Europe once again. I was so grateful to spend time with her and have her show me around her city.

Being able to visit Madrid opened my eyes again to how many extraordinary cultures and people there are in the world. Spain has such a vibrant and colorful culture and lifestyle. I thoroughly enjoyed having a delicious late lunch, walking around, shopping, relaxing, and then having dinner at 10 at night. The people there are gorgeous and so full of life. All of the buildings are gorgeous and detailed and I found myself always looking left, right, up and down to take in the structures and city as a whole. More importantly, experiencing it with someone I'm really close to made the trip that much more special and memorable. I was talking to one of Shelby's friends on my last night in Madrid and caught myself saying, "I'm excited to go home tomorrow." It's so funny to me that I consider Copenhagen to really be my home now. Every time I travel to a different place, I always look forward to coming back to the city and my apartment. I have five weeks left in this marvelous country. While it's sad since five is a small number, I know that it will motivate me to appreciate and love the time that I spend here.

Next on the agenda is Dan's visit in ten days. It honestly feels like yesterday that I was saying good-bye to him at the airport and now I get to see him so soon and it's little crazy in my mind. We don't really have a set agenda as to what we want to do since we're both content with walking around the city and going places as we walk. However, our plan is to go to the Carlsburg Brewery and the Christmas Market at Tivoli, which I've heard is incredible this time of the year. I'm so thankful he's coming to visit and don't know how I'm going to be when I see him at the airport (probably still in disbelief).

I'm excited to get back to class tomorrow and hear about everyone else's adventures! Syd and I already made plans to have our Kulor Tuesday this week and I'm so excited to see her and hear about everything she did in the past two weeks. I hope everyone is continuing to have an amazing time abroad! These past three months have made me appreciate things so much more and have opened my perspective so much. While I know leaving will be difficult, I can't wait to go back to the States and Tufts with a whole new outlook.

Only 52 days left?! Where has the time gone?

Yes, I actually counted how many days I have left here and am in disbelief that it's only 52. I have no idea where the time has gone. The college years are beyond amazing, yet they go faster and faster each year. Not okay, in my opinion. I just want to be able to take everyone I've met here home with me (both Danish friends and American friends).

Nothing too exciting has happened in the past week or so but I think that's just in preparation for the crazy and fun two weeks that are about to come. My brother and Lauren arrive on Friday afternoon and I have to constantly remind myself that I'll be with them in Europe and that they will get a glimpse into my life abroad. I'm so excited to go out with them and just be with family (plus I can't wait to see Lauren's beautiful engagement ring). I'll be traveling with them to Stockholm for three days and then I'll come back to Copenhagen to greet Elena, one of my best friends from home who is studying abroad for the semester in France. We both agreed that we're going to have more of a "date night" her first night here since both of us will be exhausted from traveling. However, I can't wait to show her how amazing Copenhagen nightlife is come Saturday. The next Tuesday I'm jetting off to Madrid to spend five days with Shelby and see how she has been living for the past two months. Despite the fact that I saw her about a month ago, I can't wait to see her again and spend more time with her. The weekend she spent in Copenhagen went by way too fast. Once my trip to Madrid is over, I get to see Danny ten days later. I can't even describe how excited I am for him to be here. It's a mix between pure excitement and disbelief that I'm actually going to be with him in Copenhagen. I feel so blessed and happy to be able to spend time with so many people who mean so much to me. In addition, I'm so thankful for everyone who is visiting Copenhagen. I'm pretty lucky.

I've already started looking at classes for next semester at Tufts (WOW) and I'm excited and anxious to see what next semester will offer. I already have an idea of the classes I'd like to take and they seem really interesting. I'm looking forward to just being back on campus and having Boston right outside my window. I of course love Copenhagen, but I will admit I miss Boston quite a bit. Being here has made me appreciate the fact that I go to school so close to such an amazing and vibrant city. I plan on really getting to know the city next semester, even if it means walking around by myself on a Saturday (I've become a big fan of doing that here).

It is obvious that my plans changed a bit this year as I'll be returning to Tufts. People sometimes ask me, "Aren't you mad that you're not staying a whole year anymore?" and if we're going to play the honest game, I'm not. I came to Copenhagen on a pretty big whim. It was really a matter of my future sister-in-law saying, "You should look into Copenhagen, you'd like it." I did and got in to a fantastic and life-changing program. I had never been to Copenhagen before and knew no Danish. It was simply a place on a map to me. Now it has become the place that changed my life and made me realize in order to really be content in life, you have to make your own decisions based on what you want and are passionate about. Coming here has made me more independent, more passionate about my field of study, and more appreciative of the people in my life and the abilities I have. At first when I decided to go back to Tufts, I was a little frantic and uneasy. I talked to my mom and dad over and over. Finally, my dad said something I'll never forget: "Laura, don't worry about anyone else around you. You do you." So it's true, maybe my plans did change a bit, however, what I look forward to most about next semester is taking everything I've learned here and applying it to home. Maybe this means changing my perspective when reading about Islam or different religions. Maybe it means sitting next to a person I wouldn't normally talk to in class. Maybe it even means putting aside time for myself to just "do me" and not worry about what everyone around me is doing or not doing. It all sounds cliche, I'm well aware. However, I think too often we become worried about what others think, say, and do and forget that they're not the ones living our life, we are. I'm thrilled to be returning to Tufts with a new perspective on just about everything. I'm thrilled to be able to see some great friends who will be on campus. Additionally, I'm thrilled for my good friends who will be abroad second semester, learning about themselves and hopefully gaining new perspectives as well.

I plan on loving every minute of the next 52 days. This has been quite an adventure already and I know the adventure will continue even after I land in the U.S. in December (can't wait to see you, Mama and Papa Grosack).

That's all for now. I can't wait to post about what I'm sure will be an unforgettable travel break. Hej Hej!

I Love Me Some Copenhagen Culture

Hello all!

It was a great first week back in Copenhagen after the study tour to Turkey. Syd and I had a lovely dinner in my apartment last Sunday (which included apple crisp...oh how I miss fall in the States) and I was so excited to see her and everyone on Monday and find out how amazing their study tours were. My friends traveled all over: Milan, Scotland, Stockholm, and even Estonia. It was really interesting to hear about their experiences and compare them to my time in Istanbul.

One thing I've really grown to love about Copenhagen is how easy-going everything and everyone is. I love being able to talk to Danes when I'm out or have them find a fascination with the States despite the fact that their culture and country is what is the most fascinating. I love how going out on a Tuesday night is the norm (not just for DIS students since we have no classes on Wednesdays) whereas in the States that would be unheard of. On Tuesday Syd and I headed to Kulor Bar, in the heart of Copenhagen, and had a blast meeting new people and dancing until the early hours of the morning. Wednesday I had no field study so I spent the beautiful and sunny day walking around and once again taking in this amazing and culturally rich city. It baffles me that the semester is almost halfway through. However, I'm grateful every day that I've done the most to immerse myself in the culture and have the time of my life while learning about any and every topic DIS or Copenhagen throws at me.

Friday night was Kulturnatten or "Culture Night" in Copenhagen. You buy a 90 kroner ticket and get in to hundreds of museums, events, and bars for free. I started out my night by meeting Syd at the DIS Halloween/Fall event, where there was cider and pumpkin carving. I love those fall activities and it put me in such a great mood. I then got to meet some of Syd's friends, who are incredible people. I'm so happy I get to keep meeting such great kids at DIS who are interesting and hilarious. We then headed to the zoo (which is normally 140 kroner for admission), which was an unforgettable experience. We all kept talking about the fact that we were in a zoo at Copenhagen at 10 PM for free and how great an adventure it was. Not to mention we were such a great group.  Next we headed to a bar in the center of the city where there was a live band. The band was incredible! They really got the crowd into their music and the atmosphere of the bar made me want to go back sometime very soon. All of the songs they played were ones that we thankfully knew so singing and dancing to them was no problem. We ended up meeting some terrific and friendly Danes who joined our group and talked to us for a few hours. Next we headed to a bar/dance club near DIS and, once again, danced until our feet couldn't handle any more movement. It was a night I'll never forget, not just because of the event but because of the people I got to meet and spend time with.

This post is short compared to my others, however, I have two papers due next week so I'll use that as an excuse. On one last note, I finally have my two-week break figured out one-hundred percent. Next Friday (the 28th) my brother and my future sister-in-law will be coming to Copenhagen for five days and then I'm spending three days with them in Stockholm. One of my best friends from home, Elena, will then be coming here for the weekend, which I'm beyond excited for. After a few days of rest in Copenhagen (and exploring the city even more), I head to Madrid to see Shelby and see just how loco Spain is. I feel so blessed to be able to see my family and spend even more time with my close friends in Europe. It's truly a dream come true.

Time for this world traveler to write her heart out in essay form.

Hej Hej!

I Love Me Some Turkish Delight

It has been quite a while since I've posted and so much has happened. During the last weekend of September, my best friend, Shelby, visited and w had the best time. I couldn't wait to see her and show her around my new home. Seeing her in the airport was unreal and we both couldn't stop saying, "Wow, we're in Europe together." On Friday we had dinner with my closest friends from DIS and went out to several clubs and bars after. Saturday we slept in and spent the rest of the day shopping, walking around Copenhagen, getting danishes and coffee, and having a nice leisurely dinner (followed by another night of bar and club hopping). I absolutely can't wait to visit her in Madrid in November.

Now, for the information that everyone has been waiting for: Turkey was beyond incredible. I learned so much on the trip and became even closer with people in my program. We arrived in Istanbul on Saturday night and I was blown away by how crowded and alive the city was. Istanbul has about 17 million people, so all of us were overwhelmed at first. We had a tour guide all week named Korai, who was the sweetest and funniest guy I've ever met. He was never afraid to joke with us and make fun of us yet still knew when to be serious so we would really learn and take in the sites around us. On Sunday we visited the Hagia Sophia and Blue Mosque. The Hagia Sophia was the most incredible site I've ever seen. There is so much history behind it and the inside was beyond breathtaking. It was impossible not to notice a different architecture and art every where we looked. There was so much intricacy and detail in every part of the mosque. The Blue Mosque wasn't quite as extravagant as I thought it would be, but it was still amazing as well. That afternoon we visited the Topkaki Palace and walked around the city. The weather all week was perfect. It was hot but not to the point where it was unbearable and there was always a nice breeze. On Monday night we had dinner on the rooftop of a hotel in Istanbul overlooking the city, in particular the Hagia Sophia and the Blue Mosque. I had to take a few minutes by myself to just take in the beauty of what I was seeing. Hearing the call to prayer late at night was also something that was pretty special and unforgettable.

On Monday morning we visited Mavi Karem, the Greek Patriarchy, and the neighborhood around it. Mavi Kalem is an NGO and works to help children and women against violence. The "office" was small and it was sad to see that the NGO did not have the necessary resources to help individuals. The Greek Orthodox Church was small but beautiful. That afternoon we had time on our own and my friends and I went to the Spice Market and Grand Bazaar. I was surrounded by every type of antique, necklace, ring, rug, lantern, and scarf you could imagine. I got to practice my bargaining skills and did pretty well (I got a gold elephant that was originally 35 lira for 8). At the Bazaar I picked up a scarf, jewelry, evil eye bracelet, and some Turkish delight (the dessert that Turkey is known for). That night we got to see a Whirling Dervish performance, which is a religious and sacred dance that is practiced in Turkey. It was amazing to see how much focus the men put into their dance and I was blown away by their concentration.

Tuesday morning we heard a lecture by Nora Fischer Onar, who works at Behcesehir University and went to college in the States. She spoke to us about minority groups in Turkey and it was an interesting and informative lecture. Unfortunately, when asked a question about women's rights in Turkey, she didn't go into much detail, which a lot of us found to be disappointing since we were subjected to rude comments and uncomfortable remarks by Turkish men on the streets. That was probably the most uncomfortable thing about Turkey: some men have no shame in yelling whatever they want at women. I've learned not to take for granted the respect I receive from people in Copenhagen and the States. That afternoon my friend Katherine and I visited the Basilica Cistern, which was underground and is the largest surviving cistern in Istanbul. It was an amazing experience to go there and see the history of Istanbul. Afterwards we walked around and both purchased gorgeous tapestries at a small shop we found. We then went to the Islamic Arts Museum. After a much deserved nap, a few of us went to a nice Turkish restaurant on the main pedestrian street, Istiklal and then went to a bar where live Turkish music played. We ended up going with many other DIS students and all of us had a great time just taking in the life and culture of Istanbul.

Wednesday was a long day. My group, Immigrants and IDPs, met with an organization early in the morning that takes care of refugees and their housing, food, and security needs. The woman who spoke to us was American and moved to Turkey just a few years before. What we were told was sad and frustrating. Most of the immigrants were unable to gain admission to countries by the UN and were forced back to their countries for other reasons. The stories we were told were appalling and it made me think about how much we take for granted in the States and how many individuals, whether in Turkey or elsewhere, can't even receive proper housing. It was easy to tell that the woman speaking to us felt just as terrible. We then attended a lecture as a large group and had an amazing lunch overlooking the ocean and all of Istanbul. That afternoon we got to meet and talk with Turkish students about the government, Turkey's accession into the EU, and what it was like to be a university student in Istanbul. The girl I talked to was sweet, honest, and everything she said was eye-opening. She told me how she truly felt about the Turkish government and how she often feared arrest based on her thoughts. I'll refrain from saying her name and her views on the government out of respect, however, it made me realize how important it is never to for granted the religious and political freedoms we have in the U.S. (and even Denmark). Being able to talk to Turkish students about religion, politics, classes, music, movies, and even partying was an incredible experience. I learned that all of us are truly the same regardless of political views or religion, which is an aspect of life that many individuals often fail to recognize. That night we had a great dinner with the Turkish students and went out with them afterwards. It was so amazing to see how fun and thrilled they were to be interacting with American students. It was truly a day I'll never forget.

Thursday was our last day and was devoted to a lecture at another university and free time in the afternoon. We went from the European side of Turkey to the Asian side within an hour. After the tour, we did some shopping and went to the Turkish baths (look it up, it's pretty unique). Since it was our last night we had a final group dinner at a restaurant on the main walking street. All of us felt even more like a family and couldn't wait to go out together after dinner. We ended up at a bar/club that played great dance music and our professors danced (and drank) with us until about 3 AM. Being able to reflect on the amazing week we just had as a group was unforgettable.

Istanbul was a life-changing experience and was the best academic trip I've ever been on. I learned so much about politics, religion, people, unique cultures, and it changed my view of the world as a whole. I've often contemplated why religion gets in the way of so many issues between individuals and groups. As the product of a Christian mother and Jewish father,  I've seen firsthand how religion can get in the way of people's views and opinions of others. Yet if I learned one thing from this trip, it is that no religion or belief system is greater than the other. From meeting the Turkish students and other Turks, whether they were Christian or Muslim, I came to realize that, as cliche as it sounds, we're all the same. Christianity does not triumph Judaism and Islam is no better than Hinduism.

Additionally, I learned never to take respect and my rights of free speech for granted. As mentioned before, many of the girls, myself included, were uncomfortable in Istanbul because of the numerous negative comments we received from men on the streets. It's obvious that cultures and cities differ, however, I have never been subjected to that level of disrespect in any other country. To know that many women go through that every day made me realize how important it is to be respectful to any and every human being, regardless of gender or ethnicity and that respect should always be strictly enforced. When I got to really think about it, I wish that one of the lecturers had discussed women's rights in Turkey more just because of that aspect of Turkish life. In regards to the free speech part, I will never forget the conversation I had with the Turkish students I met. Some were afraid to express their views while others simply said nothing. To not be able to speak freely on issues related to politics and religion is something that still baffles me. From now on I know I'll always think about those students and the fears they face regarding their personal views.

Our good family friend, John, always told me, "You have to be comfortable with being uncomfortable." I had to constantly repeat that phrase to myself throughout the entire trip. In fact, that's what made the trip so unforgettable.  I was put completely out of my comfort zone and forced to think about some incredibly significant issues and see life from a different perspective. While I enjoyed my time in Turkey, I was thrilled to be back in Copenhagen. Never have I been so excited to be surrounded by hundreds of bikes or get on the 6A bus back to the apartment I love. I gave my roommate a huge hug when I saw her and spent all of my first day back just walking by myself throughout the city and being so happy to be "home." I've truly realized how at home I feel in Copenhagen and it's an amazing and beautiful feeling.

I can't wait to see what the rest of the semester brings. My trip to Turkey was such a significant part of my experience abroad and changed my perspective on many things. Who knows what the next two months hold but I know they will continue to change me as an individual and give me more and more insight on how huge this world really is.

True Independence

This was my first weekend in Copenhagen where I really got to take in the city before a hectic next three weeks. It baffles me that I've been here about a month. It baffles me even more that I'm two weeks away from going on a trip of a lifetime that I read about with such excitement back in March (Istanbul, in case you haven't realized). I've grown to truly love and appreciate the people I've met here and I realized that being abroad has made me more open to meeting and having conversations with new individuals I might not have gotten the chance to know otherwise. From all of the conversations I've had with them and from all of the great experiences we've had together (and are going to have), I know picked the right city to study abroad in. That said, I've also learned many things about Copenhagen, culturally and academically.

Since we don't have classes on Wednesdays (they're dedicated to field studies for classes), Sydney and I decided to go out and explore a bit. We ended up watching a football game at one of the bars and then sitting down for some drinks with two other DIS kids, one being the very first person I met in the program at the airport in Newark. The next day I had a round-table discussion with a professor who spoke about cultural conflict. It was interesting but since the speaker was not very open-minded when it came to the opinions of others, he was hard to follow at time. Despite the fact that we had a full day of classes the next day, I ended up going out to get a drink with three other (great) people from my program. It was so nice and calming to just sit down and relax for a while amidst a hectic week. On Thursday I had a quintessential "Girl's Night Out" with some of my closest friends here that lasted for about four hours! We ended up just sitting around and talking about anything and everything. In Copenhagen, there's a term called "hygge," which literally translates to "cozy." It's the concept of lighting candles, whether at home or at a restaurant, and sitting around with close friends to eat, drink, laugh, talk, and just be together. It's nights like those that I always look really fondly on.

I didn't have class on Friday and since it was so gorgeous out I decided to take my camera and take pictures all throughout the city. I ended up walking for three and a half hours just taking as many pictures as I could. Being abroad has made me much more comfortable about being on my own and doing things on my own. It has not only made me more appreciative of the individuals I do have in my life but really lets me get out of my comfort level in a good way. If I'm alone, whether it's waiting for the bus or simply walking around, I no longer feel compelled to take out my phone to keep me occupied. I simply just take in every thing that is around me. I've also started to let the sounds of Copenhagen be my music instead of putting my headphones on while I walk. That night two friends from my program came over for some drinks and we went out around Copenhagen.

The highlight of my week and weekend was probably Saturday night. Sydney and I made plans at the last minute and had dinner at what is now one of our favorite restaurants in Copenhagen. We then spent the rest of the night walking around and talking, people watching, having a beer, and, at the last minute, sharing a cigar by candlelight (don't worry, it won't turn into a regular occurrence). We really took in the city that night. The weather was gorgeous and people watching in Europe might be one of my new favorite past-times.

The next three weeks and weekends are already so busy! This weekend I'm fortunate enough to have Shelby visiting. This week is pretty hectic with work so I keep telling myself I simply have to make it to Friday and it will all be worth it. I'm so excited for all of my new friends here to meet someone who is so important to me. I hope everyone else is having a great experience abroad!

Sweden, Copenhagen Night Life, and so much more...

I e-mail with my Mom pretty regularly. She's a beautiful woman who is absolutely in love with Europe and in one e-mail said to me, "Isn't Europe simply glorious?" Yes, Mama, it truly is.

I've been here for three weeks and have become more humbled and aware of my surroundings. In Boston/Medford I'd see something I like and walk past it. Here, I always have my camera on me to capture anything I can. Nights don't start at 9 or 10, they start at 12 or 1. Seeing the sun come up on a Friday or Saturday is normal. Life is (and should be) more simple. Here girls don't worry about how they look as much as we do in the States. A black sweater, jeans, and your hair in a ponytail is simple but beautiful. The nightlife is colorful and Danes are so social and want to get to know you, regardless of your nationality. Last Saturday Sydney and I went to a club called Rust and danced until 5 AM. As we waited for the bus the sun came up and I knew I'd never forget that moment and how great a night it was.

I've already had the opportunity to just hop on over to another country for a little visit: Sweden. DIS does a short study tour and long study tour to places that pertain to your program of study (Migration and Conflict for me) and this weekend our program went to Southern Sweden to study and get a firsthand look at immigrant life and learn about Muslim  culture. It was not only an amazing experience but pretty life-changing. Our group went to Sweden not knowing each other too well but left Sweden being so excited to go to Turkey in three weeks and feeling like a family. We left early Thursday morning and toured a mosque and Muslim private school in Malmo, Sweden. I was so taken aback by how "normal" the Muslim school was. It reminded me so much of my elementary school at home. The kids were happy and didn't have a care in the world, regardless of their religion. After our tour we had some free time in Malmo, which is such a beautiful city.

I have to say the highlight for me was the visit to the immigrant ghetto in Rosengard. We were greeted by individuals who run the social aspect of the community as well as another immigrant from Somali named Ishmael. He was so knowledgeable and insightful about religion. It really took my breath away. As we were touring the community, I told him that I'm the "product" of a Jewish man from Brooklyn and a Christian woman from a small and quaint Upstate New York town and he was so interested and delighted about the fact that two different religions could manage to find love. Aside from that discussion with him, I was blown away by how happy and joyous the kids playing on a beaten up playground were. I'm not sure if I'd ever to be able to live in their conditions or even merely as an immigrant in a foreign nation where I would be subjected to negative criticism. It was humbling to powerful to be a witness to all of it.

On Friday we visited the cultural museum in Gothenburg and had a round-table discussion with a Religion professor at the University in Gothenburg. It was a great discussion about Islam and the issue of Islamic immigrants coming to nations such as Sweden and Denmark. The more I'm here and the more I learn about the various issues within religion, the more I want my concentration to be Islam. It's such a controversial yet fascinating religion. We then took a boat tour around Gothenburg, which we luckily had amazing weather for. After we had a three and a half hour dinner together at an Italian restaurant as a group. At the end of the dinner I felt as if everyone in my program was like my family. We talked about any and all subjects over bottles of wine and had an amazing meal. Afterwards all of us (including our professors) went to a bar to celebrate a successful trip and toast to what I'm sure will be an amazing time together in Istanbul. The next morning we went kayaking in the Atlantic Ocean, which was tough but a great experience (when else will I be able to say I went kayaking in the Atlantic?).

There are already so many great things that are going on this semester for me to look forward to and a lot has to do with traveling and seeing those who truly mean a lot to me. In just eleven days, one of my greatest and best friends from Tufts, Shelby, is visiting for the weekend. I'm beyond excited to see her and just be able to spend a weekend with her walking around, shopping, talking, and going out at night. When you're away from your college friends you realize how many nights of talking and hanging out you took for granted. It's very small things too. I miss Hannah's random and hilarious remarks about any subject. I miss Shelby texting me about lunch or dinner. I miss Shauna giving me life advice. I miss simply being around A.G. and calling her my BRE. I miss Veronica's stories (enough said).  That said, I've made some amazing friends here who I'm blessed to know. I don't know how I'm going to be when I see Shelby at the airport. I'll either be smiling from ear-to-ear or crying out of sheer happiness. Next month I'm going to Istanbul and Amsterdam to see my best friends from Tufts. In November my family is coming for the first half of my travel break and I'm making plans to go to Madrid to see Shelby for the second half. Lastly, I get to spend Thanksgiving here with Dan which I'm so excited for. I can't wait for him to see Copenhagen.

I suppose that's all for now. This weekend Sydney and I are going to venture out to some flea markets around the city for a change of scenery and then see what adventures we'll go through on Saturday night. On Thursday night some of my good friends and I are having a typical "girl's night" in Copenhagen with some drinks and dinner at a great restaurant we found...

Europe is glorious.

The 10-Day Mark

Hej all!

Well I've officially hit the 10-day mark in Copenhagen even though I feel like I've been here for much longer. As each day goes on, I feel more and more comfortable in the city and less like I'm a tourist. So far the weather has been absolutely incredible and breezy (just the way I like it) and walking down the colorful streets every day has been unreal. I've started ordering coffee and saying hello, thank you, and good bye in Danish and have met some incredible people, both American and Danish.

I came to Copenhagen telling myself that I wanted to grow as a person, meet at least one person who will change my life, and gain new perspective on the world outside of America. Already I've made friends who have promised to be bridesmaids at my wedding, and have realized my passion for studying religion and wanting to major in it. When I initially told people I was majoring in religion, I got some crazy looks and even some "What the hell are you going to do with that?" Even many of my friends didn't understand it. Over the past week I've learned about how amazing religion and its history is and how it truly in my mind is one of the most important aspects of how our world functions and how we as humans interact. I feel confident knowing that I can continue to study something I love, even if it does not become a part of who I am in the future in the working world. Despite the fact that Denmark is not exactly known for being a religious state, already I can see how immigration conflict and religious conflict affects the country. I'm beyond thrilled to be able to go to Istanbul and see firsthand how they're dealing with religion and change. Most of the conversations I've had with Natasha late at night deal with our views on immigration and religion. It has helped so much having her around. Since we're both in school and doing different things we don't get to see each other during the day but it's great when we both get home and can talk about how our days were and laugh about the silly questions I have about Copenhagen (don't worry, BRE, you still hold your title).  All in all, if I leave at the end of the semester knowing that I'm 100% percent sure I'm confident about my major and still passionate about it, I'll be one happy girl.

My two favorite classes so far are Cultural Conflict (my "core" class) and Religion and Politics in Europe. Both of my professors are interesting, funny, and intelligent and it seems like they really have a passion for teaching and interacting with students. Though it's a month away, I'm beyond excited to go to Istanbul as part of my Cultural Conflict class and learn about the religious conflict going on in the country after having studied it so much sophomore year. I have yet to start my fifth class at the University of Copenhagen but I'm looking forward to it. I got elected class representative for my Cultural History of Travel class, which I'm also excited for. The professor is so knowledgeable and seems to know everything (he is also my professor for History of Jewish Life in Europe).

For my first weekend in Copenhagen, I did a lot of sightseeing and experienced the Copenhagen nightlife (which, by the way, is unreal). Since I don't have classes Friday I took the opportunity to just walk around the city by myself (I didn't get lost...A+) and breathe in the richness of Copenhagen. Friday night I went out with some great people to a bar/club in the center of the city and stayed out until 4 AM just dancing, at which point Syd and Meg decided to stay over. Saturday Syd and I shopped in Norreport (the main and great shopping area) and had a great meal at this small Thai restaurant. Saturday was more low-key since I was still exhausted and Sunday was spent doing work at a small cafe in the city.

I can't believe how much is already going on in the month of September. This weekend I'm going to Tivoli with a few people and then going out with Syd on Saturday. Next weekend I'm off to Sweden for a short study tour and kayaking. At the end of September Shelby is hopefully visiting (*finger crossed*) and then I'm off to Turkey! October holds a lot of great opportunities as well and I can't wait to start adventuring through Europe (though Copenhagen is pretty amazing already).

Alright, it's off to class for this girl. Hej Hej!

Hilsen fra København!

Well, after a long and exhausting few days of traveling, getting to Copenhagen, and orientation, classes have finally started and I finally get a few hours to myself. I'm sitting in a cafe drinking coffee and eating a Danish (how København of me) and I figured this was the perfect time to update everyone on the trip and what has gone on so far.

Well first off, jet lag sucks. Saturday was a very long travel day and luckily I had Dan with me for the first two flights. It was pretty hard saying good bye to my parents at the airport and I even teared up when the plane took off from Syracuse. Though nothing really compared to getting to Newark and saying good bye to Dan and finally REALLY being on my own. I always used to roll my eyes at the people who cried at airports and I fully take all of those eye rolls back. Ahead of me in the security line was a confident and talkative student excited about his trip and I envied him so much because I was just there ready to cry. Ironically I ended up sitting next to him on the plane. It was absolutely the most memorable plane ride ever. Right away we both figured out we were DIS students and spent a majority of the flight talking about our lives, relationships, how appalling it was that they were not showing any movies, and other things here and there. Oh, and we drank. Before you judge, you should know that I was a nervous wreck and my nerves were all over the place. David suggested that we have a drink to celebrate our semester abroad and the flight attendant just kept bringing us drinks and not charging us. When we finally tried to tip him he was adamant about not taking the money. There was a pretty big group of DIS students on the flight so we stuck together at the Oslo airport before departed for Copenhagen. It was beautiful in Copenhagen once I arrived. I was unbelievably exhausted and felt crappy and really just wanted to sleep. My roommate Natasha met me at the airport and she is seriously too adorable (not to mention gorgeous) to describe. We share an apartment together with a bathroom and kitchen and my room is great. It's white with modern pieces all over and is pretty large. I can't really say the same for the bathroom, however, but I'm slowly getting used to it.

I won't say the transition has been easy at all. Today is the first day I really feel like myself (I'm still jet lagged but since I don't have classes tomorrow I plan on sleeping in). I got extremely homesick from the start and mixed in with exhaustion was not in a good place. I really felt that I had made a huge mistake and just wanted to go home. Not to mention I felt like my apartment was far away (it's about a 15-20 bus ride to the center of the city and where classes are) but once I heard some people had to travel about an hour to 80 minutes just to get into the city, I didn't really have much to complain about. After talking non-stop with my parents and Dan and still wanting to come home, I finally got a phone call from Mikey (a.k.a. my third parent) who convinced me that it took time. After talking to Natasha more I felt a lot better and made it a point to make my room feel more like a room rather than just a place where I had to sleep. Regardless, its been a good day.

I only started classes today but I feel like there is already so much to look forward to. In a few weeks I'm going on a short study tour to Sweden to learn about the religious institutions in the country and in early October I get to go to Istanbul for a week. I've met some great people here and got to hang out with Syd more than I ever got to at Tufts, which is great. My classes seem really interesting and the professors are very laid back and "chill" (they will laugh at you if you call them Mr. or Professor).

This post was not very detailed but I'll update more this weekend when I can really sit down and talk about the lovely city of Copenhagen (SO MANY BIKES). If you're abroad and reading this, I sincerely hope your time abroad is going well and you're adjusting well. If you're still back in the States (especially Tufts loves), I miss you guys...but Copenhagen is pretty glorious.

Laura

P.S. To Mom, Dad (not that you'll even get on the internet to read this), Dan, Mikey, and Lauren: Thank you guys. I won't say any more than that but you get the picture.

A Summer of Change

I've never liked change. It sounds cliche but it is certainly true. Change means some type of reform and I've always viewed it in a negative light. I'd prefer the simple date night of dinner and a movie with the boyfriend. My weekend ritual in college would be going out with friends Saturday or Friday nights. Each morning before class I'd stick to a latte to get me going, never trying anything different like tea or one of the crazy drinks offered by the Rez Quad.  However, once I truly had the chance to think about it, I've come to the realization my adventure has really just begun and it starts with a HUGE dose of change.

I originally started this blog to keep my friends and family updated about my life in Copenhagen, Denmark, hence the beautiful background in the blog of the city with its vibrant colors (and for those of you who know about my love of color, you can now see why I chose this magnificent city). This said, bear with me as I get used to the blogging thing. As the title suggests, my adventure has already started, regardless of the fact that I'm still physically in the United States. I leave in exactly one month. The mixture of my feelings includes some anxiety, a large amount of excitement, and a dash of uncertainty. In exactly one month I won't be packing up my entire room to drive the five or six hours to Medford. I'll be on a plane with only two suitcases and a backpack to last for four months (that's a big sacrifice for a girl).  I still have no idea as to where I am living or who I'll be living with. In fact, the only thing I know for sure are what classes I am taking. A month ago I was scared beyond belief about the concept of living in a foreign country for four months, away from my family and everything I know and love. However, as the date gets closer, I find myself wanting to know more and more about the rich culture of Copenhagen and how this significant change in my life is going to pan out.

As many of you know, I've been involved with a leadership program called Leaders for Life International since I was a little, innocent sophomore in high school. Through this program I've participated as a student and have had the amazing opportunity to counsel high school students and become close with other counselors. Last week I attended the banquet dinner for the program and got to catch up with a number of counselors and campers, some of whom I've never met. However, one individual in particular changed my perspective that day. Meg is a strong, small, graceful, intelligent, and spunky red-head who I met years ago. We were never "best friends" at camp, however, got to know each other better as counselors. Meg is not your typical twenty year-old college gal. She prefers chai tea and reading a good book on a gorgeous summer night, has a passion for helping young individuals follow their dreams, and knows every thing there is to know about Japan, her second home. She is kind but strong, quiet but determined, and has never been any one but herself, a quality I truly admire. As I told her about the fact that I'll be spending my junior year abroad in Copenhagen, her eyes widened with excitement and she gave me two bits of advice: 1. "Don't hold any expectations" and 2. Try everything...twice." Although I laughed with her and we spent a good deal of time catching up as opposed to mingling with every one around us, I realized how right she is and how Meg is a true testament to how beautiful change is. I was only a semi-counselor-in-training when I saw/met Meg. She was shy, hardly spoke, and did not seem to be very social. However, she has morphed into this beautiful, courageous, and motivated individual who has taught me about the allure of change and how to embrace it next year.

Change for me is inevitable next year. I won't be walking up the library steps to get to class each day. I won't be getting my caffeine fix from the nice ladies at Hotung who always smile at me as I leave or say "Here, Bella" as they hand me my drink. I won't be eating in Dewick or Carms or "Tisching it Up" with friends. While there are a lot of "wonts," I know there are certain to be a new number of "wills" as I venture out into the beautiful and magnificent city of Copenhagen. Those who know me well know that I'm close to my parents and three brothers and they're right on track to embracing change as well. For the first time in thirty years (yes, thirty), my parents will be without any child in the house a.k.a. "Empty Nesters."  Natey, my little brother and buddy is going where no Grosack has gone, to the good 'ol southern state of North Carolina to attend Wake Forest. Matthew is relocating to a new apartment in Miami and living on his own. And sweet Mikey is now happily engaged to my spunky and awesome future sister-in-law (both of whom are coming to visit Copenhagen in November...talk about a great family). Change is awesome, my friends and while it's different and new, it is amazing at the same time.

I plan on taking full advantage of my last full month in the States. That includes a trip down to New Jersey to visit the boyfriend and visiting the lovely city of New York,  a quick trip to Boston to say "See you later" to the place I've called home for the past two years (hopefully), cooking some delicious food, drinking some delicious drinks, becoming even more obsessed with Zumba, planning trips around Europe for the next year, getting to know my camera so I can take and post awesome pictures of Copenhagen, and relaxing with family and friends in good 'ol Upstate New York.  So, to whomever is going through change, be it relocating to a different country, or starting over in any aspect of your life, I applaud you. Change is a great thing. Embrace it and it will embrace you back.

Until Copenhagen!
LGro